This one girl and I had a date set up tonight to go ice skating. This would be our second (The first one went very well). She left a message on my voicemail today while I was in class, saying she felt really crappy, that she was on her period, and that she wouldn't be able to do it today. She said that maybe we could try it tomorrow, but that she doesn't know if she's going to be feeling well tomorrow either. Her voice sounded pretty sincere, but I don't know, women can be good actors. How would a true DJ handle this, I missed the section in the bible on periods :nervous: .
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Red Flag - Unsure how to handle it
- Thread starter paulwis
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Give her the benefit of the doubt this time and let her reschedule. If it happens again, next her.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
The fact that she's interested in rescheduling it is a good sign. Like Blackmm said, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe tell her it's too bad because all that fun with you would have made her feel better, then just wait for the next date.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Blackmm said:
DIDDO
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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