This one girl and I had a date set up tonight to go ice skating. This would be our second (The first one went very well). She left a message on my voicemail today while I was in class, saying she felt really crappy, that she was on her period, and that she wouldn't be able to do it today. She said that maybe we could try it tomorrow, but that she doesn't know if she's going to be feeling well tomorrow either. Her voice sounded pretty sincere, but I don't know, women can be good actors. How would a true DJ handle this, I missed the section in the bible on periods :nervous: .
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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Red Flag - Unsure how to handle it
- Thread starter paulwis
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Give her the benefit of the doubt this time and let her reschedule. If it happens again, next her.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
The fact that she's interested in rescheduling it is a good sign. Like Blackmm said, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe tell her it's too bad because all that fun with you would have made her feel better, then just wait for the next date.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Blackmm said:
DIDDO
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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