"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Recommend me some cheerful musics (like Jazz?)

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I LOVE listening to When the Saints go marching in.

Besides that, any cheerful, bright song is welcome: Spyrogyra's Morning dance

and Trio Toy Keat's End of the First Set. Also http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABWrjhBVnAk

I mean, since a lot of songs and music I love to hear are Jazz, it doesn't mean

what you recommend has to be Jazz. It can be Blues, something like Folsom

Prison. Anyways, there are examples of my type of music.

When I listen to them, all my worries, stress, frustration about women

and life shrivel away and I feel very happy, fun and cheerful

I would really appreciate anyone who recommends me a music. Thank you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bela Fleck and the Fleck Tones

Its jazz, and bluegrass, and everything weird in between fused together. Absolutely amazing if you ever get the chance to see it live. You'll be so focused on how talented they are, you'll forget about everything.

Oh, and if you want blues, try Howlin' Wolf. Even though he's singing blues, it somehow makes you feel better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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try nujabes beats are mello also did the samurai champloo soundtrack.
 
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Try anything by Kirk Whalum. Type that into Pandora and you got a good playlist right there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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