"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Recommend me some cheerful musics (like Jazz?)

moneyisking

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I LOVE listening to When the Saints go marching in.

Besides that, any cheerful, bright song is welcome: Spyrogyra's Morning dance

and Trio Toy Keat's End of the First Set. Also http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABWrjhBVnAk

I mean, since a lot of songs and music I love to hear are Jazz, it doesn't mean

what you recommend has to be Jazz. It can be Blues, something like Folsom

Prison. Anyways, there are examples of my type of music.

When I listen to them, all my worries, stress, frustration about women

and life shrivel away and I feel very happy, fun and cheerful


I would really appreciate anyone who recommends me a music. Thank you!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bela Fleck and the Fleck Tones

Its jazz, and bluegrass, and everything weird in between fused together. Absolutely amazing if you ever get the chance to see it live. You'll be so focused on how talented they are, you'll forget about everything.

Oh, and if you want blues, try Howlin' Wolf. Even though he's singing blues, it somehow makes you feel better.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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try nujabes beats are mello also did the samurai champloo soundtrack.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Try anything by Kirk Whalum. Type that into Pandora and you got a good playlist right there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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