"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Recommend me some cheerful musics (like Jazz?)

moneyisking

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I LOVE listening to When the Saints go marching in.

Besides that, any cheerful, bright song is welcome: Spyrogyra's Morning dance

and Trio Toy Keat's End of the First Set. Also http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABWrjhBVnAk

I mean, since a lot of songs and music I love to hear are Jazz, it doesn't mean

what you recommend has to be Jazz. It can be Blues, something like Folsom

Prison. Anyways, there are examples of my type of music.

When I listen to them, all my worries, stress, frustration about women

and life shrivel away and I feel very happy, fun and cheerful


I would really appreciate anyone who recommends me a music. Thank you!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bela Fleck and the Fleck Tones

Its jazz, and bluegrass, and everything weird in between fused together. Absolutely amazing if you ever get the chance to see it live. You'll be so focused on how talented they are, you'll forget about everything.

Oh, and if you want blues, try Howlin' Wolf. Even though he's singing blues, it somehow makes you feel better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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try nujabes beats are mello also did the samurai champloo soundtrack.
 

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Try anything by Kirk Whalum. Type that into Pandora and you got a good playlist right there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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