"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rebounding from BIG mistakes

Bossman90

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Years ago, I fell in love with this girl and I douched hard on her. I held resentment because I believed she picked the wrong dude who was beta and she was a pathetic skank. She ended up liking me and I turned away from her in anger, which caused a giant spiral of hatred on both of our ends. She stocked me and harrassed me. Now I want her back. Any advice would be nice on the subject.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You want her back, after she left you for a loser?
 

Fatal Jay

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Yep, I would **** her then never contact her again, or just let her know I want her for sex, and find a better looking woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This was yrs ago.. People make mistakes.. Maybe to you he was a loser but she found something in him she liked. You can't hate him because of that. Maybe he didn't have the motivation or drive for academics you have.. or is as successful but maybe he was confident or just had a trait she liked. So it's yrs later.. she's matured I'm sure..

I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.
 

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headFirst said:
This was yrs ago.. People make mistakes.. Maybe to you he was a loser but she found something in him she liked. You can't hate him because of that. Maybe he didn't have the motivation or drive for academics you have.. or is as successful but maybe he was confident or just had a trait she liked. So it's yrs later.. she's matured I'm sure..

I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.
I like that. Her and this other c*nt where the reasons I lost my game and found the community in the first place. Ive never been as good since them and i want paybck.
 
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