Years ago, I fell in love with this girl and I douched hard on her. I held resentment because I believed she picked the wrong dude who was beta and she was a pathetic skank. She ended up liking me and I turned away from her in anger, which caused a giant spiral of hatred on both of our ends. She stocked me and harrassed me. Now I want her back. Any advice would be nice on the subject.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rebounding from BIG mistakes
- Thread starter Bossman90
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
All you gotta do is call her up and whip out your penis and put it on her hand bro.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Fixed it for youyoungmack said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This was yrs ago.. People make mistakes.. Maybe to you he was a loser but she found something in him she liked. You can't hate him because of that. Maybe he didn't have the motivation or drive for academics you have.. or is as successful but maybe he was confident or just had a trait she liked. So it's yrs later.. she's matured I'm sure..
I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.
I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.