Years ago, I fell in love with this girl and I douched hard on her. I held resentment because I believed she picked the wrong dude who was beta and she was a pathetic skank. She ended up liking me and I turned away from her in anger, which caused a giant spiral of hatred on both of our ends. She stocked me and harrassed me. Now I want her back. Any advice would be nice on the subject.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rebounding from BIG mistakes
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
All you gotta do is call her up and whip out your penis and put it on her hand bro.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Fixed it for youyoungmack said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This was yrs ago.. People make mistakes.. Maybe to you he was a loser but she found something in him she liked. You can't hate him because of that. Maybe he didn't have the motivation or drive for academics you have.. or is as successful but maybe he was confident or just had a trait she liked. So it's yrs later.. she's matured I'm sure..
I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.
I wouldn't take the advice and hold a grudge on someone from yrs ago.. let go of the F!cking past already and exercise the new you and see what happens. Chances are she wont be so perfect this time anyway.. and you will see now that YOU are better.. you can probably do better.