Ok, so I was open with this one girl and she knows that I joined the community because of depression(loss of game) and knows the tricks post and current that I use to get girls. HSe knows that I trained with a coach also and that he taught push-pulls(she thinks its emotional manipulation) and now she won't have anything to do with me. How should I handle this?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Find a new girl. Easy. Who gives a fúck what she thinks.
youngmack
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I can't stress this enough bro, you have to just put your penis on her palm
The Gambler
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Cat's out of the bag. Game over.Bossman90 said:
Don't worry though... with all your training, you should be EXCITED about getting yourself out there again. One gal can make that depression of yours a thing of the past.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Lol - rule number one about the seduction community: do NOT talk about the seduction community.
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!