Ok, so I was open with this one girl and she knows that I joined the community because of depression(loss of game) and knows the tricks post and current that I use to get girls. HSe knows that I trained with a coach also and that he taught push-pulls(she thinks its emotional manipulation) and now she won't have anything to do with me. How should I handle this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
rebounding from a dumb mistake
- Thread starter Bossman90
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Find a new girl. Easy. Who gives a fúck what she thinks.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
I can't stress this enough bro, you have to just put your penis on her palm
The Gambler
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Cat's out of the bag. Game over.Bossman90 said:
Don't worry though... with all your training, you should be EXCITED about getting yourself out there again. One gal can make that depression of yours a thing of the past.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Lol - rule number one about the seduction community: do NOT talk about the seduction community.
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!