Ok, so I was open with this one girl and she knows that I joined the community because of depression(loss of game) and knows the tricks post and current that I use to get girls. HSe knows that I trained with a coach also and that he taught push-pulls(she thinks its emotional manipulation) and now she won't have anything to do with me. How should I handle this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
rebounding from a dumb mistake
- Thread starter Bossman90
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Find a new girl. Easy. Who gives a fúck what she thinks.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
I can't stress this enough bro, you have to just put your penis on her palm
The Gambler
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Cat's out of the bag. Game over.Bossman90 said:
Don't worry though... with all your training, you should be EXCITED about getting yourself out there again. One gal can make that depression of yours a thing of the past.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Harry Wilmington
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Lol - rule number one about the seduction community: do NOT talk about the seduction community.
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!