Ok, so I was open with this one girl and she knows that I joined the community because of depression(loss of game) and knows the tricks post and current that I use to get girls. HSe knows that I trained with a coach also and that he taught push-pulls(she thinks its emotional manipulation) and now she won't have anything to do with me. How should I handle this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
rebounding from a dumb mistake
- Thread starter Bossman90
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dap
Senior Don Juan
Find a new girl. Easy. Who gives a fúck what she thinks.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
I can't stress this enough bro, you have to just put your penis on her palm
The Gambler
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Cat's out of the bag. Game over.Bossman90 said:
Don't worry though... with all your training, you should be EXCITED about getting yourself out there again. One gal can make that depression of yours a thing of the past.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Harry Wilmington
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Lol - rule number one about the seduction community: do NOT talk about the seduction community.
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!
Rule number two: if a girl finds out you learned stuff from the seduction community, instead of acting like you did something wrong, turn it around on her. Just tell her that girls are at an advantage because they've been getting help for YEARS on how to manipulate guys into liking them, and that the stuff you're learning is to be used in a positive way.
Think about all the books, magazine articles, tv and radio shows out there for women. Books like "Think Like a Lady, Act Like a Man" or articles like "100 Ways to Get Him to Propose" are nothing more than things teaching women ways to manipulate a man - but again, its in a POSITIVE way. Yet you want to learn how to turn THEM on and now you're being a sleaze ball? PLEAAAASE!
Anyway... as for this girl... what i have found is, as much as they hate to admit it, girls usually respect and/or go out with dudes that they know know the game. So, play it with her. Don't reach out to her, and if she contacts you and asks where you disappeared to, be like "oh, i'm still here - just practicing the whole push and pull thing on you." And laugh when you say it.
If she brings up how manipulative you're being, just be like "hey, its no worse than when you go on a date and put on make up - now, would that be dating the 'real' you, or the manipulative version of you that's using make up to cover up what you REALLY look like. And don't get me started on push up bras and perfume!"
In other words: don't take her seriously. Play with the fact that she knows you have game, then be like "you're just mad 'cause you don't know what kind of game i'd be using on you. Ooh, wait, that's me being mysterious - looks like u found me out!" Then continue going after women. Either one of them will like you, or this one will realize that, despite what she logically feels about you and what she knows, that she wants to be with you after all. But don't feel bad about looking for help, maaaan!