"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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really shy, hot, younger chick, who wants an AFC???

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Vypros said:
LOL @ you calling HIM the AFC when he's obviously stealing your girl
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:confused: obviously, he was talking to her before i was, and obviously i was the one trying to steal "his girl".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What I actually meant by taking charge was that you should lead things toward a more exciting, seductive experience instead of just doing boring chit chat in her room. Ie, take her and actually go somewhere or do something. Even watching a movie together (during which you make sure to kino) is an activity; just hanging around while the television is turned on is not an activity.


saturday night when i saw her I called her on her bs. she got kind of embarassed and didnt say anything about it. I told her roommate that girls are a dime a dozen and that i didnt care. Its not like i was lying.
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i'd be curious to know more specifically what you said, but it sounds like you probably did a pretty good job. It might not be enough to turn her around, but the proper attitude should be, Get with the program, or leave me alone
 
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jamescr73 said:
:confused: obviously, he was talking to her before i was, and obviously i was the one trying to steal "his girl".
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Hey, you don't have to prove anything to ME, chief. Just make sure you read the rest of that post.
 
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just found out that shes a virgin. not that shes religious or anything, shes fairly wild. really threw me for a loop, cause the first night we were hanging out talking and stuff, we talked about some racy stuff and she knew what was going on. any ideas?
 
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jamescr73 said:
.... Chicks lately have been a dime a dozen.
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And yet --- you're not washing stinky stuff off your wiener. Lol. Stop bragging about what you imagine could have happened and get your head right.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jamescr73 said:
This girl is almost 21, im 27. Shes really shy, and probably fairly unexperienced. I seriously have no experience with a chick in this situation. Id give her a solid HB8.5.
Oh, and while i was sitting there they were texting each other and giggling. One of the messages from the roommate said "I didnt realize how cute he is" or something like that.
Any ideas how to pull her from AFC boy?
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Wait, I thought looks didn't matter!

Face it, she's young and he's cuter than you.

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Obsidian said:
heresy. No girl wants an AFC.
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Most girls think they want (and SAY they want) an AFC (someone who cares about their feelings and will do whatever the hell they say), but thats not actually what they want.
 
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just found out that shes a virgin. not that shes religious or anything, shes fairly wild. really threw me for a loop, cause the first night we were hanging out talking and stuff, we talked about some racy stuff and she knew what was going on. any ideas?
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Only hors talk "racy" - quit being a fool and believing what hors say!!!!
 
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she didnt tell me she was a virgin. My roommate is friends with one of her roommates and he told me thats what he heard.

BTW i look better than the other guy. I work out 5 days a week. Im 6'2" and 200 lbs. Hes about 5'8", slightly balding with glasses. Hes a nerd. Maybe hes hung like a donkey.

Oh, and i banged her roommate on monday. girls are a nickel a dozen.
 
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