Vypros said:LOL @ you calling HIM the AFC when he's obviously stealing your girl
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Vypros said:LOL @ you calling HIM the AFC when he's obviously stealing your girl
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i'd be curious to know more specifically what you said, but it sounds like you probably did a pretty good job. It might not be enough to turn her around, but the proper attitude should be, Get with the program, or leave me alonesaturday night when i saw her I called her on her bs. she got kind of embarassed and didnt say anything about it. I told her roommate that girls are a dime a dozen and that i didnt care. Its not like i was lying.
Hey, you don't have to prove anything to ME, chief. Just make sure you read the rest of that post.jamescr73 said:obviously, he was talking to her before i was, and obviously i was the one trying to steal "his girl".
And yet --- you're not washing stinky stuff off your wiener. Lol. Stop bragging about what you imagine could have happened and get your head right.jamescr73 said:.... Chicks lately have been a dime a dozen.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wait, I thought looks didn't matter!jamescr73 said:This girl is almost 21, im 27. Shes really shy, and probably fairly unexperienced. I seriously have no experience with a chick in this situation. Id give her a solid HB8.5.
Oh, and while i was sitting there they were texting each other and giggling. One of the messages from the roommate said "I didnt realize how cute he is" or something like that.
Any ideas how to pull her from AFC boy?
Most girls think they want (and SAY they want) an AFC (someone who cares about their feelings and will do whatever the hell they say), but thats not actually what they want.Obsidian said:heresy. No girl wants an AFC.
Only hors talk "racy" - quit being a fool and believing what hors say!!!!jamescr73 said:just found out that shes a virgin. not that shes religious or anything, shes fairly wild. really threw me for a loop, cause the first night we were hanging out talking and stuff, we talked about some racy stuff and she knew what was going on. any ideas?