Vypros said:LOL @ you calling HIM the AFC when he's obviously stealing your girl
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Vypros said:LOL @ you calling HIM the AFC when he's obviously stealing your girl
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i'd be curious to know more specifically what you said, but it sounds like you probably did a pretty good job. It might not be enough to turn her around, but the proper attitude should be, Get with the program, or leave me alonesaturday night when i saw her I called her on her bs. she got kind of embarassed and didnt say anything about it. I told her roommate that girls are a dime a dozen and that i didnt care. Its not like i was lying.
Hey, you don't have to prove anything to ME, chief. Just make sure you read the rest of that post.jamescr73 said:obviously, he was talking to her before i was, and obviously i was the one trying to steal "his girl".
And yet --- you're not washing stinky stuff off your wiener. Lol. Stop bragging about what you imagine could have happened and get your head right.jamescr73 said:.... Chicks lately have been a dime a dozen.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Wait, I thought looks didn't matter!jamescr73 said:This girl is almost 21, im 27. Shes really shy, and probably fairly unexperienced. I seriously have no experience with a chick in this situation. Id give her a solid HB8.5.
Oh, and while i was sitting there they were texting each other and giggling. One of the messages from the roommate said "I didnt realize how cute he is" or something like that.
Any ideas how to pull her from AFC boy?
Most girls think they want (and SAY they want) an AFC (someone who cares about their feelings and will do whatever the hell they say), but thats not actually what they want.Obsidian said:heresy. No girl wants an AFC.
Only hors talk "racy" - quit being a fool and believing what hors say!!!!jamescr73 said:just found out that shes a virgin. not that shes religious or anything, shes fairly wild. really threw me for a loop, cause the first night we were hanging out talking and stuff, we talked about some racy stuff and she knew what was going on. any ideas?