May be hard to believe but, there are quite a few girls interested in me at school, ive said this before, its a good confidence boost too. Anyhow my close friend for 4-5 years is starting to like me, how can i make it obvious to her that im not interested in her?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Really close friend starts to like me
- Thread starter HandyAndy
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
stop flirting with her
and i just spilled soup on my keyboard
and i just spilled soup on my keyboard
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
ask her for advice on other girls...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
You dont flirt with her and yet shes coming on to you.
I dunno what to say. Keep giving her the red light and she will stop coming onto you and supress those feelings inside her like normal healthy people do.
I dunno what to say. Keep giving her the red light and she will stop coming onto you and supress those feelings inside her like normal healthy people do.
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"Even if you were the last girl on earth."
Hahah I love that one.
Hahah I love that one.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
LMAO!!john paul said:
Yeah just keep hinting about other girls and she'll soon lose interest.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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This emoticon belongs back in your sig HandyAndy. :rock:
It is totally you and I mean this as a compliment.
Anyway though if you are really not interested in her and she is not attractive at all just friendzone her like chicks do regularly to their male AFC friends who are interested in them.
Just keep treating her like a friend as others have said and put up stop signs directly or indirectly as she tries to advance on ya.
It is totally you and I mean this as a compliment.
Anyway though if you are really not interested in her and she is not attractive at all just friendzone her like chicks do regularly to their male AFC friends who are interested in them.
Just keep treating her like a friend as others have said and put up stop signs directly or indirectly as she tries to advance on ya.
Isn't it weird and ironic how we spend all this time trying to make ourselves better or be someone else around girls we are attracted to, then girls we are friends with like us.
Wouldn't it be great if we could just be ourselves purely around everyone without any effort?
Wouldn't it be great if we could just be ourselves purely around everyone without any effort?