"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reallly shy girl..

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Soo i've been talking to this one girl for sometime now.. shes a couple years younger and shes a very proper girl. I can just tell.. She does not smoke nor drink or a big partyer. Her friends have all told me she likes me and talks about me. yet when I've finaly made plans with her for several weekends she ends up just breaking them off.. or i dont even hear from her that day or night at all.. I don't get it?? Then i saw her at a smallish party the other night and i tried talking and bein with her for a little bit but she seemed realllly shy and barely spoke to me and stayed upstairs, away from the party most the night...

Her friends say she is reallly shy as well and hasnt had much 'guy' experience.. they also say she thinks i dont wanna hang out with her??? yet everytime i tell her were hanging out she agrees.. then she goes ****ing MIA... im kinda liking this girl alot and need some way to get to her.. any help would be great :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dotcomwill said:
You gotta lighten her up. Make her laugh.
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duuude i kno.. I talk to her all the time and make her laugh alott i get that part done she thinks im hilarious.. and everything i do including work is sooo 'cute' :rolleyes:
 
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Next time you see her out, at a group thing or something, start talking to her, and go in for a hug or kiss.

What is so great about this girl? She is shy, avoids social settings, is anti-social, proper, probally a virging, and has dissed you 5-6 times. If roles were reveresed and you kept dissing her she wouldnt call you ever again,
 
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Typical. Maybe she's more experienced than she's letting on. If she keeps u wanting, running after her, then soon she has the upper hand. (psychologically)
She talks to u, talk about u with her friends but she bails out on the one on one dates. See the pattern ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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