"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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reallly shy girl..

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Soo i've been talking to this one girl for sometime now.. shes a couple years younger and shes a very proper girl. I can just tell.. She does not smoke nor drink or a big partyer. Her friends have all told me she likes me and talks about me. yet when I've finaly made plans with her for several weekends she ends up just breaking them off.. or i dont even hear from her that day or night at all.. I don't get it?? Then i saw her at a smallish party the other night and i tried talking and bein with her for a little bit but she seemed realllly shy and barely spoke to me and stayed upstairs, away from the party most the night...

Her friends say she is reallly shy as well and hasnt had much 'guy' experience.. they also say she thinks i dont wanna hang out with her??? yet everytime i tell her were hanging out she agrees.. then she goes ****ing MIA... im kinda liking this girl alot and need some way to get to her.. any help would be great :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dotcomwill said:
You gotta lighten her up. Make her laugh.
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duuude i kno.. I talk to her all the time and make her laugh alott i get that part done she thinks im hilarious.. and everything i do including work is sooo 'cute' :rolleyes:
 
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Next time you see her out, at a group thing or something, start talking to her, and go in for a hug or kiss.

What is so great about this girl? She is shy, avoids social settings, is anti-social, proper, probally a virging, and has dissed you 5-6 times. If roles were reveresed and you kept dissing her she wouldnt call you ever again,
 
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Typical. Maybe she's more experienced than she's letting on. If she keeps u wanting, running after her, then soon she has the upper hand. (psychologically)
She talks to u, talk about u with her friends but she bails out on the one on one dates. See the pattern ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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