"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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reallly shy girl..

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Soo i've been talking to this one girl for sometime now.. shes a couple years younger and shes a very proper girl. I can just tell.. She does not smoke nor drink or a big partyer. Her friends have all told me she likes me and talks about me. yet when I've finaly made plans with her for several weekends she ends up just breaking them off.. or i dont even hear from her that day or night at all.. I don't get it?? Then i saw her at a smallish party the other night and i tried talking and bein with her for a little bit but she seemed realllly shy and barely spoke to me and stayed upstairs, away from the party most the night...

Her friends say she is reallly shy as well and hasnt had much 'guy' experience.. they also say she thinks i dont wanna hang out with her??? yet everytime i tell her were hanging out she agrees.. then she goes ****ing MIA... im kinda liking this girl alot and need some way to get to her.. any help would be great :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dotcomwill said:
You gotta lighten her up. Make her laugh.
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duuude i kno.. I talk to her all the time and make her laugh alott i get that part done she thinks im hilarious.. and everything i do including work is sooo 'cute' :rolleyes:
 
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Next time you see her out, at a group thing or something, start talking to her, and go in for a hug or kiss.

What is so great about this girl? She is shy, avoids social settings, is anti-social, proper, probally a virging, and has dissed you 5-6 times. If roles were reveresed and you kept dissing her she wouldnt call you ever again,
 
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Typical. Maybe she's more experienced than she's letting on. If she keeps u wanting, running after her, then soon she has the upper hand. (psychologically)
She talks to u, talk about u with her friends but she bails out on the one on one dates. See the pattern ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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