"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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reallly shy girl..

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Soo i've been talking to this one girl for sometime now.. shes a couple years younger and shes a very proper girl. I can just tell.. She does not smoke nor drink or a big partyer. Her friends have all told me she likes me and talks about me. yet when I've finaly made plans with her for several weekends she ends up just breaking them off.. or i dont even hear from her that day or night at all.. I don't get it?? Then i saw her at a smallish party the other night and i tried talking and bein with her for a little bit but she seemed realllly shy and barely spoke to me and stayed upstairs, away from the party most the night...

Her friends say she is reallly shy as well and hasnt had much 'guy' experience.. they also say she thinks i dont wanna hang out with her??? yet everytime i tell her were hanging out she agrees.. then she goes ****ing MIA... im kinda liking this girl alot and need some way to get to her.. any help would be great :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dotcomwill said:
You gotta lighten her up. Make her laugh.
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duuude i kno.. I talk to her all the time and make her laugh alott i get that part done she thinks im hilarious.. and everything i do including work is sooo 'cute' :rolleyes:
 
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Next time you see her out, at a group thing or something, start talking to her, and go in for a hug or kiss.

What is so great about this girl? She is shy, avoids social settings, is anti-social, proper, probally a virging, and has dissed you 5-6 times. If roles were reveresed and you kept dissing her she wouldnt call you ever again,
 
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Typical. Maybe she's more experienced than she's letting on. If she keeps u wanting, running after her, then soon she has the upper hand. (psychologically)
She talks to u, talk about u with her friends but she bails out on the one on one dates. See the pattern ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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