Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Link me!Francisco d'Anconia said:It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Babnik said:Link me!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?lookyoung said:Honest question would u want advice from skip or advice from LMS? Who is more valuable to this website?
No...the actual article!Francisco d'Anconia said:
if everything is me regurgitating known information, then how bout we just shut down sosuave and keep the don juan bible open and thats it!Last Man Standing said:Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?
Another post by lookyyoung that says nothing!!At least you are consistent!!
To even compare skippy to me is insulting to say the least -- why don't you read some threads out there and see my wise golden advice instead of being cheerleaders and flamers and trying to create fractions amongst the members!!
Skp does not give advice - he is a regurgitator of known information - a plagiarist!
He, as you, give no insight or wisdom - no original thinking whatsoever!!! He is just a childish name caller as you and Daniel are as well!!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.