Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Link me!Francisco d'Anconia said:It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Babnik said:Link me!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?lookyoung said:Honest question would u want advice from skip or advice from LMS? Who is more valuable to this website?
No...the actual article!Francisco d'Anconia said:
if everything is me regurgitating known information, then how bout we just shut down sosuave and keep the don juan bible open and thats it!Last Man Standing said:Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?
Another post by lookyyoung that says nothing!!At least you are consistent!!
To even compare skippy to me is insulting to say the least -- why don't you read some threads out there and see my wise golden advice instead of being cheerleaders and flamers and trying to create fractions amongst the members!!
Skp does not give advice - he is a regurgitator of known information - a plagiarist!
He, as you, give no insight or wisdom - no original thinking whatsoever!!! He is just a childish name caller as you and Daniel are as well!!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.