Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Link me!Francisco d'Anconia said:It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Babnik said:Link me!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?lookyoung said:Honest question would u want advice from skip or advice from LMS? Who is more valuable to this website?
No...the actual article!Francisco d'Anconia said:
if everything is me regurgitating known information, then how bout we just shut down sosuave and keep the don juan bible open and thats it!Last Man Standing said:Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?
Another post by lookyyoung that says nothing!!At least you are consistent!!
To even compare skippy to me is insulting to say the least -- why don't you read some threads out there and see my wise golden advice instead of being cheerleaders and flamers and trying to create fractions amongst the members!!
Skp does not give advice - he is a regurgitator of known information - a plagiarist!
He, as you, give no insight or wisdom - no original thinking whatsoever!!! He is just a childish name caller as you and Daniel are as well!!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.