Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.Babnik said:Explain push/pull in detail...I can't find it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Link me!Francisco d'Anconia said:It's a premise similar to taking two steps forward then taking a step back. It's in the DJB.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Babnik said:Link me!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?lookyoung said:Honest question would u want advice from skip or advice from LMS? Who is more valuable to this website?
No...the actual article!Francisco d'Anconia said:
if everything is me regurgitating known information, then how bout we just shut down sosuave and keep the don juan bible open and thats it!Last Man Standing said:Hasha, you guys are too funny -you think the more times that you use the word flame then that makes me a flamer -- are you trying to set precedent?
Another post by lookyyoung that says nothing!!At least you are consistent!!
To even compare skippy to me is insulting to say the least -- why don't you read some threads out there and see my wise golden advice instead of being cheerleaders and flamers and trying to create fractions amongst the members!!
Skp does not give advice - he is a regurgitator of known information - a plagiarist!
He, as you, give no insight or wisdom - no original thinking whatsoever!!! He is just a childish name caller as you and Daniel are as well!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.