5string
Master Don Juan
Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
5string said:Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.For_F said:Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
Naughty Ninja said:Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.perseverance said:She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
I see. I'd report the keying incident to the Police and if you can get any evidence that will stick like text messages etc, then use that against her. Don't bother fighting fire with fire on this one, you can't defeat a mentally ill person. You sink to their level and they'll drop that level by several bars.For_F said:Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.