"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5string said:
Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.

Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
 

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For_F said:
Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.
 
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Naughty Ninja said:
Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.

Life has already gotten her in several ways, badly. But hopefully it gets her even worse for all the bullish*t I experienced as a result of her. Like I continue to say, there has never been a girl ever who I have put up with and treated so maturely. Given I am not that old not even 30 so my past relationships were at quite young ages but still, the one who I tried treating like a 'princess' bit me in the ass so f*cking hard.

Perhaps it isn't a coincidence that I treated many others without much care and compassion and they all bowed at my feet while I gave all the love I had to her and she f*cked me over.
 
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She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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perseverance said:
She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.
 
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For_F said:
Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.
I see. I'd report the keying incident to the Police and if you can get any evidence that will stick like text messages etc, then use that against her. Don't bother fighting fire with fire on this one, you can't defeat a mentally ill person. You sink to their level and they'll drop that level by several bars.
 
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