5string
Master Don Juan
Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
5string said:Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.For_F said:Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
Naughty Ninja said:Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.perseverance said:She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
I see. I'd report the keying incident to the Police and if you can get any evidence that will stick like text messages etc, then use that against her. Don't bother fighting fire with fire on this one, you can't defeat a mentally ill person. You sink to their level and they'll drop that level by several bars.For_F said:Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.