"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let it go. You'll be wasting your time and nothing will happen because it can't be proven. Eat the deductible on your insurance and get rid of the bytch.
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Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
 
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For_F said:
Think I might go down this path. Every day I get a little less emotional about it and try and convince myself to get past it. Only thing is, I know if something happens again, my response will be catastrophic. I will destroy this sl*t and everything she possibly has.
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Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.
 
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Don't let trash drag you down the sewer with it. Karma will take care of her eventually. She'll reap what she sows and it's in the life she's living.
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Life has already gotten her in several ways, badly. But hopefully it gets her even worse for all the bullish*t I experienced as a result of her. Like I continue to say, there has never been a girl ever who I have put up with and treated so maturely. Given I am not that old not even 30 so my past relationships were at quite young ages but still, the one who I tried treating like a 'princess' bit me in the ass so f*cking hard.

Perhaps it isn't a coincidence that I treated many others without much care and compassion and they all bowed at my feet while I gave all the love I had to her and she f*cked me over.
 
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She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She sounds proper nutty, get a restraining order on her.
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Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.
 
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Police said I can't until I have evidence that SHE herself has harmed me or is very likely to harm me. All f*cking almost impossible unless I record her, or get text messages.
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I see. I'd report the keying incident to the Police and if you can get any evidence that will stick like text messages etc, then use that against her. Don't bother fighting fire with fire on this one, you can't defeat a mentally ill person. You sink to their level and they'll drop that level by several bars.
 
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