"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reacquainting with someone you haven’t seen/talked to in a while...

DJ1234

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I'm about to meets this really HB (9-10) which I haven't seen or talked to in a while (about 6 months). She had a bf for a while and i'm thinking I should go for her..

Any points that should be covered when talking to someone that you haven't talked to in a long time?....Beside Hi, Hello?
Something that would really attract her and bring some good memories?...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In two months you are a stranger. Approach her fresh. You don't know anything about her, she definitely don't know anything about you..


All your conversations should be so that you don't remember what you talked two talked to before or done. Otherwise you're a guy who's hung up on her, because she's so freaking hot, la la la, kiss my butt, no need to please this guy, he's already mine. Be an a55. At the same time if she remembers something confront her, tell her, ahh you remember, you're into me. Accuse her of being into you, at least once. At the same time you can kino, by pushing her shoulder or arm.


If you remember something you two talked to before, talk about it again, like you have no clue. She'll probably tells you that you already know that, pretend you don't. Then make it flow really nicely into accusing her of remembering you from so long ago. Damn girl, you must be into me or something. You find me sexy? Kino that b1tch.
 

DJ1234

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^ thanks for the advice....esp. about the two months thing has this been proven?
edt: The reason I ask is cause she's been giving me very strong eye contactm, looking then looking away pretty much in general very clear IOI's...just haven't really approached her yet cause I really don't know if she still has a bf or not..
 

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I disagree that you are strangers after two months. You both should remember the reasons you hung out in the first place. And also, girls like it when you remember things about them. I remember little things about a lot of girls, it doesn't mean I am really into them, it just means I listened.
 

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^that is a reason why I asked if it's been proven although I can see where stuntman is coming from as you're appart from someone you knew for a while people can change (almost constantly) which has been proven....just didn't know in EXACTLY 2 MONTHS

But then again I don't think she would be giving me these IOI's if I didn't leave some kind of value in her so wern't total strangers seeing as we live in the same town too...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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