"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reacquainting with someone you haven’t seen/talked to in a while...

DJ1234

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I'm about to meets this really HB (9-10) which I haven't seen or talked to in a while (about 6 months). She had a bf for a while and i'm thinking I should go for her..

Any points that should be covered when talking to someone that you haven't talked to in a long time?....Beside Hi, Hello?
Something that would really attract her and bring some good memories?...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In two months you are a stranger. Approach her fresh. You don't know anything about her, she definitely don't know anything about you..


All your conversations should be so that you don't remember what you talked two talked to before or done. Otherwise you're a guy who's hung up on her, because she's so freaking hot, la la la, kiss my butt, no need to please this guy, he's already mine. Be an a55. At the same time if she remembers something confront her, tell her, ahh you remember, you're into me. Accuse her of being into you, at least once. At the same time you can kino, by pushing her shoulder or arm.


If you remember something you two talked to before, talk about it again, like you have no clue. She'll probably tells you that you already know that, pretend you don't. Then make it flow really nicely into accusing her of remembering you from so long ago. Damn girl, you must be into me or something. You find me sexy? Kino that b1tch.
 

DJ1234

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^ thanks for the advice....esp. about the two months thing has this been proven?
edt: The reason I ask is cause she's been giving me very strong eye contactm, looking then looking away pretty much in general very clear IOI's...just haven't really approached her yet cause I really don't know if she still has a bf or not..
 

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I disagree that you are strangers after two months. You both should remember the reasons you hung out in the first place. And also, girls like it when you remember things about them. I remember little things about a lot of girls, it doesn't mean I am really into them, it just means I listened.
 

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^that is a reason why I asked if it's been proven although I can see where stuntman is coming from as you're appart from someone you knew for a while people can change (almost constantly) which has been proven....just didn't know in EXACTLY 2 MONTHS

But then again I don't think she would be giving me these IOI's if I didn't leave some kind of value in her so wern't total strangers seeing as we live in the same town too...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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