"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reacquainting with someone you haven’t seen/talked to in a while...

DJ1234

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I'm about to meets this really HB (9-10) which I haven't seen or talked to in a while (about 6 months). She had a bf for a while and i'm thinking I should go for her..

Any points that should be covered when talking to someone that you haven't talked to in a long time?....Beside Hi, Hello?
Something that would really attract her and bring some good memories?...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In two months you are a stranger. Approach her fresh. You don't know anything about her, she definitely don't know anything about you..


All your conversations should be so that you don't remember what you talked two talked to before or done. Otherwise you're a guy who's hung up on her, because she's so freaking hot, la la la, kiss my butt, no need to please this guy, he's already mine. Be an a55. At the same time if she remembers something confront her, tell her, ahh you remember, you're into me. Accuse her of being into you, at least once. At the same time you can kino, by pushing her shoulder or arm.


If you remember something you two talked to before, talk about it again, like you have no clue. She'll probably tells you that you already know that, pretend you don't. Then make it flow really nicely into accusing her of remembering you from so long ago. Damn girl, you must be into me or something. You find me sexy? Kino that b1tch.
 

DJ1234

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^ thanks for the advice....esp. about the two months thing has this been proven?
edt: The reason I ask is cause she's been giving me very strong eye contactm, looking then looking away pretty much in general very clear IOI's...just haven't really approached her yet cause I really don't know if she still has a bf or not..
 

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I disagree that you are strangers after two months. You both should remember the reasons you hung out in the first place. And also, girls like it when you remember things about them. I remember little things about a lot of girls, it doesn't mean I am really into them, it just means I listened.
 

DJ1234

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^that is a reason why I asked if it's been proven although I can see where stuntman is coming from as you're appart from someone you knew for a while people can change (almost constantly) which has been proven....just didn't know in EXACTLY 2 MONTHS

But then again I don't think she would be giving me these IOI's if I didn't leave some kind of value in her so wern't total strangers seeing as we live in the same town too...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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