"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Reacquainting with someone you haven’t seen/talked to in a while...

DJ1234

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I'm about to meets this really HB (9-10) which I haven't seen or talked to in a while (about 6 months). She had a bf for a while and i'm thinking I should go for her..

Any points that should be covered when talking to someone that you haven't talked to in a long time?....Beside Hi, Hello?
Something that would really attract her and bring some good memories?...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In two months you are a stranger. Approach her fresh. You don't know anything about her, she definitely don't know anything about you..


All your conversations should be so that you don't remember what you talked two talked to before or done. Otherwise you're a guy who's hung up on her, because she's so freaking hot, la la la, kiss my butt, no need to please this guy, he's already mine. Be an a55. At the same time if she remembers something confront her, tell her, ahh you remember, you're into me. Accuse her of being into you, at least once. At the same time you can kino, by pushing her shoulder or arm.


If you remember something you two talked to before, talk about it again, like you have no clue. She'll probably tells you that you already know that, pretend you don't. Then make it flow really nicely into accusing her of remembering you from so long ago. Damn girl, you must be into me or something. You find me sexy? Kino that b1tch.
 

DJ1234

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^ thanks for the advice....esp. about the two months thing has this been proven?
edt: The reason I ask is cause she's been giving me very strong eye contactm, looking then looking away pretty much in general very clear IOI's...just haven't really approached her yet cause I really don't know if she still has a bf or not..
 

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I disagree that you are strangers after two months. You both should remember the reasons you hung out in the first place. And also, girls like it when you remember things about them. I remember little things about a lot of girls, it doesn't mean I am really into them, it just means I listened.
 

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^that is a reason why I asked if it's been proven although I can see where stuntman is coming from as you're appart from someone you knew for a while people can change (almost constantly) which has been proven....just didn't know in EXACTLY 2 MONTHS

But then again I don't think she would be giving me these IOI's if I didn't leave some kind of value in her so wern't total strangers seeing as we live in the same town too...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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