"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black Widow Void

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Thanks Atom Smasher. As mentioned in my initial posting, I recognize that this isn't my forum and I am under no entitlement to any explanation.

When I notice a new forum member, I attempt to make them feel welcomed .. even going as far as to counter-attack older smug-appearing members that do their "chest thumping" (toward a new member) . This being a new member's first experience, I want them to feel welcomed and to return.

Again, I realize that this isn't my forum. With this being expressed, it is my hope that all mods reading this will practice the same scrutiny toward the chest-thumpers pouncing on new members... as they have toward the old-timers engaging in political discussion.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I’ve been calling out old and mid-timers for years for treating new members harshly. They usually back off when I do, but it is troubling that the phenomenon exists. There definitely comes a time for some “tough love” when a noob proves he’s just here to waste everybody’s time, but every new guy should be extended a welcoming hand when he arrives and as he struggles to get his head on straight.
 

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I don't remember the need for a political discussion post when I was more active a few years ago; was this put up due to the 2016 election?
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The consensus -- at least, from those who responded -- claim we want "loyal companionship" above all else.
Lol, ask that in the general forum. Anyway, a lot of guys want "loyal companionship", but don't think they can get it from today's women in today's world, so they default to spinning plates. And that doesn't include the guys who just want multiple sexual partners in the first place.
 

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And oh! Ye of little Faith! Ye who call the best ideas the worst! Some people are backwards.
Speaking of backwards, this thread has gone backwards also and totally off topic now.
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