"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rating Myself

crossboss

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What do you guys think?

Strengths
Applying Kino
Looks
Dancing
Happiness
Clothes wearing

Average
Communication (although I don't know for sure).
Learning from mistakes

Weak
Confidence
****y and Funny
Neg hits
Mind set
Smiling
Posture
Athleticism
Pimples


How do you improve learning from mistakes.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm not exactly sure what's going on here...Again...I must be losing it in my old age:(
 

crossboss

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I am trying to rate myself...

Just wanted input on what you guys do to rate yourself...Or anything I am doing wrong when I rate myself...

Thanks
 

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Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PRMoon said:
Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
Thanks and the above poster as well.
 
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