"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rating Myself

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What do you guys think?

Strengths
Applying Kino
Looks
Dancing
Happiness
Clothes wearing

Average
Communication (although I don't know for sure).
Learning from mistakes

Weak
Confidence
****y and Funny
Neg hits
Mind set
Smiling
Posture
Athleticism
Pimples


How do you improve learning from mistakes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not exactly sure what's going on here...Again...I must be losing it in my old age:(
 

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I am trying to rate myself...

Just wanted input on what you guys do to rate yourself...Or anything I am doing wrong when I rate myself...

Thanks
 

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Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PRMoon said:
Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
Thanks and the above poster as well.
 
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