Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rating Myself

crossboss

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What do you guys think?

Strengths
Applying Kino
Looks
Dancing
Happiness
Clothes wearing

Average
Communication (although I don't know for sure).
Learning from mistakes

Weak
Confidence
****y and Funny
Neg hits
Mind set
Smiling
Posture
Athleticism
Pimples


How do you improve learning from mistakes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm not exactly sure what's going on here...Again...I must be losing it in my old age:(
 

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I am trying to rate myself...

Just wanted input on what you guys do to rate yourself...Or anything I am doing wrong when I rate myself...

Thanks
 

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Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PRMoon said:
Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
Thanks and the above poster as well.
 
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