"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rating Myself

crossboss

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What do you guys think?

Strengths
Applying Kino
Looks
Dancing
Happiness
Clothes wearing

Average
Communication (although I don't know for sure).
Learning from mistakes

Weak
Confidence
****y and Funny
Neg hits
Mind set
Smiling
Posture
Athleticism
Pimples


How do you improve learning from mistakes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not exactly sure what's going on here...Again...I must be losing it in my old age:(
 

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I am trying to rate myself...

Just wanted input on what you guys do to rate yourself...Or anything I am doing wrong when I rate myself...

Thanks
 

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Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon said:
Oh I get it!

Personally I don't "categorize" my strengths and weeknesses. I like to think of my skills as an combined overall effort. The gears have to fit together in order for the machine to work. I may not have the same makeup or tactics as other DJ's on this site but what I do have works very well for me. If something does NOT work for me, I simply omit it from my theives kit. I may TRY something that can be percived as a weakness from time to time but I won't practice something i'm obviously not good at.

I think that's what I wanted to say here...or maybe I'm a crazy old man:(
Thanks and the above poster as well.
 
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