Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And if she fvcks often and treats Her man great?
Precisely! Get a show dog if you want to nitpick about appearances....
A medium one can get finer if her confidence rises. And that confident will increase if you treat her good fvck her like a champ and eat her like a king.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well I'd take her in a jiffy and be quite happy! So where do I find girls like her then? Around here at her age I don't see very many as hot as her out and about.
True. Women cant do this. A nasty women no matter how much cash she has I would not screw her.
No.
The point is the rating scale is strictly a measure of looks, not that you should accept a woman who is a shrew.
That's lovely, I'm sure she'd be thrilled.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You know what that means, right? Oral, anal, vaginal!
She seems to have a genuine personality, I'd give her a roster spot
I see women like her every day at the grocery store, coffee shops, softball leagues, gyms
I work at a grocery store part time, and at night too when younger people typically shop and I don't see too many like her. Just being honest. Gyms, of course you would.
Really? Are you in a rural area?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kinda. It's a small town. County population about 250k full time residents but lots of snowbirds. My town is named best place to retire. My county has a median age of 55.9 and the city I live in 66.7. Even at night it's mostly older folks grocery shopping.
Low crime. I do notice these old farts actually have more road rage than young folks too. One thing I also hate is the restaurants sucks too. Crap food. Embarrassing going on a date and crappy food choices when compared to Tampa or sarasota.
I still can’t wrap my head around why older people want to retire some place that’s hot.
Less annoying than a hardened ho trying to fvck your shyt up or get something outta you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
