"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rate these guys pics

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looks wise what do u think of these ppl based on first impressions-their looks and give a mark out of 10 for each of them. would u date these guys for a girls ,and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em



http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=drew102

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member6477931.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2707995.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1678817.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1487904.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member239778.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2406674.htm#in
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJVladdy

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2nd pisture of #2 is best. His default pic sux tho. the other 2 guys are just average.
 
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id fvck em all....... if i were gay.





but to be honest, im pretty sure they are all the same guy. that could be the beer vision though... or the fact that all asians look alike to my white ass.
 
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Whats this? A bloody girls meeting?

Get out of here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ducaro

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Why do all of those guys look like they are taking a 'dump of freedom' after being held in a concentration camp for days?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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escaleraroyal said:
why dont u post your pic?
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

It's threads like these that make this site fun at times.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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joe45 said:
...and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em...
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WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
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You know I saw your name as the last post in this thread, and I clicked on it hoping that that was the sort of response you would give. :cool:

People aren't the box they ship in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let´s go on with the list!

What about this guy?
 
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None of these guys have the vibe of a player. The last one looks like he's somewhat outgoing, but all the other guys look like complete squares and try-hards.
 
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This is what happens when you mom drinks when shes pregnant with you.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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