"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joe45

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looks wise what do u think of these ppl based on first impressions-their looks and give a mark out of 10 for each of them. would u date these guys for a girls ,and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em



http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=drew102

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member6477931.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2707995.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1678817.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1487904.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member239778.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2406674.htm#in
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJVladdy

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2nd pisture of #2 is best. His default pic sux tho. the other 2 guys are just average.
 

Randallpink83

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id fvck em all....... if i were gay.





but to be honest, im pretty sure they are all the same guy. that could be the beer vision though... or the fact that all asians look alike to my white ass.
 

WesCottII

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Whats this? A bloody girls meeting?

Get out of here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ducaro

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Why do all of those guys look like they are taking a 'dump of freedom' after being held in a concentration camp for days?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChapStick

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escaleraroyal said:
why dont u post your pic?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

It's threads like these that make this site fun at times.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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joe45 said:
...and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em...
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
 

reset

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
You know I saw your name as the last post in this thread, and I clicked on it hoping that that was the sort of response you would give. :cool:

People aren't the box they ship in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blue Phoenix

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Let´s go on with the list!

What about this guy?
 
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The Deacon

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None of these guys have the vibe of a player. The last one looks like he's somewhat outgoing, but all the other guys look like complete squares and try-hards.
 

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This is what happens when you mom drinks when shes pregnant with you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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