"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe45

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looks wise what do u think of these ppl based on first impressions-their looks and give a mark out of 10 for each of them. would u date these guys for a girls ,and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em



http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=drew102

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member6477931.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2707995.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1678817.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1487904.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member239778.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2406674.htm#in
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJVladdy

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2nd pisture of #2 is best. His default pic sux tho. the other 2 guys are just average.
 

Randallpink83

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id fvck em all....... if i were gay.





but to be honest, im pretty sure they are all the same guy. that could be the beer vision though... or the fact that all asians look alike to my white ass.
 

WesCottII

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Whats this? A bloody girls meeting?

Get out of here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ducaro

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Why do all of those guys look like they are taking a 'dump of freedom' after being held in a concentration camp for days?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ChapStick

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escaleraroyal said:
why dont u post your pic?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

It's threads like these that make this site fun at times.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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joe45 said:
...and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em...
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
 

reset

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
You know I saw your name as the last post in this thread, and I clicked on it hoping that that was the sort of response you would give. :cool:

People aren't the box they ship in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blue Phoenix

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Let´s go on with the list!

What about this guy?
 
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The Deacon

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None of these guys have the vibe of a player. The last one looks like he's somewhat outgoing, but all the other guys look like complete squares and try-hards.
 

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This is what happens when you mom drinks when shes pregnant with you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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