"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rate these guys pics

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looks wise what do u think of these ppl based on first impressions-their looks and give a mark out of 10 for each of them. would u date these guys for a girls ,and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em



http://www.okcupid.com/profile?u=drew102

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member6477931.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2707995.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1678817.htm

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member1487904.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member239778.htm#in

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member2406674.htm#in
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2nd pisture of #2 is best. His default pic sux tho. the other 2 guys are just average.
 

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id fvck em all....... if i were gay.





but to be honest, im pretty sure they are all the same guy. that could be the beer vision though... or the fact that all asians look alike to my white ass.
 

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Whats this? A bloody girls meeting?

Get out of here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why do all of those guys look like they are taking a 'dump of freedom' after being held in a concentration camp for days?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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escaleraroyal said:
why dont u post your pic?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

It's threads like these that make this site fun at times.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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joe45 said:
...and if ur a guy would u if ur were a girl or what do u think of em...
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
WTF??!! :confused:
Are there guys who really think about these things???
You know I saw your name as the last post in this thread, and I clicked on it hoping that that was the sort of response you would give. :cool:

People aren't the box they ship in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Let´s go on with the list!

What about this guy?
 
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None of these guys have the vibe of a player. The last one looks like he's somewhat outgoing, but all the other guys look like complete squares and try-hards.
 

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This is what happens when you mom drinks when shes pregnant with you.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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