"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nicksaiz65

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What's your point?

Do you see what you're doing here? You're creating an argument just for the sake of having something to argue about and distract yourself from taking action.

We'd been working together for several months, so I feel uniquely qualified to call you out on your BS...

Back around September and October, when your business started winding down for the season, you reasoned that you wanted to spend as much time on the business so you could make as much money before you mostly lost that income. That was your reason for not being able to take more action THEN.

What is your reason NOW?

Because lawn care season is back in full effect. So you're gonna be busy again and not have time, again. What are you gonna do differently? Because I have told you, and am continuing to tell you, what you need to do to achieve this goal you have:
  1. Approach more women
  2. Figure out your presentation (style)
I know I keep coming back to this guy, but do you know why @nicksaiz65 was so damn successful during our time together? He simply took advice and did it. In this case, that meant going out and approaching dozens of women every weekend, and reporting back with his experiences so we could fine-tune his approach.

He didn't let his biases get in the way of making progress, and didn't alter my suggestions so he could do things "his way" - he just did the obvious f***ing thing that I told him he needed to do.

And how'd that turn out for him? He f***ed 3 new women within 3 months. I think 2 of them were back-to-back weekends.

Decide whether it's more important to convince people that you're "right", and a victim of your circumstances (which is meaningless, since that just means you assign power to external factors beyond your control, and blame them for your position), or whether you'd rather be happy by doing something uncomfortable that would help you achieve your goals.
I’ll be expecting my royalties check in the mail soon haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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