"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ken785

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In the first picture...before I can rate you...answer this question:

Are you the guy on the left? or the guy on the right?? :whistle:
 

game.r

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You should worry less about your looks (which you really can not change...unless you consider plastic surgery an option) and work on your body language. which is terrible in both pictures btw.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wear a smaller a shirt. Go to Syms and have a taylor do measurements to find you proper fitting shirts.

And the body language in your first pic, needs work. Your head moved to far to the left. Keep your head/neck straight and chin up, smile more.
 

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I think if you work on your body language (standing up straight, shoulders back, chest puffed), you can probably jump up a point or two in the looks department. Body language conveys a lot.
 

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You don't look too bad and should have no problem meeting women. My guess is that it is your confidence and attitude that might be holding you back.

Cheers!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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u look like you can pull. work on your game
 

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nateistoraw said:
I am tired of striking out with the ladies! I need to know my rating out of 10.

I know there is a league.

So here are 2 of my best pictures:

http://prodigygm.com/images/me.jpg

http://prodigygm.com/images/me2.jpg

Rate me out of 10
(NO HOMO)
and lets be honest please.
You ain't bad looking bruh, but like my mans Macallik said, whats your game like?

The second shirt looked kinda wack to me, that bright Orange color, but the suite is fly.....

peace
 

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Well the problem isnt confidence or anything, the problem is that I keep going for the 9s and 10s and find out they have boyfriends.lol.
 

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Looks certainly won't be an issue for you so don't even worry about it. In my opinion as long as you know what you're doing with the ladies (have tight game) and dress very nice you'll have absolutely no problem.
 

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Ken785 said:
In the first picture...before I can rate you...answer this question:

Are you the guy on the left? or the guy on the right?? :whistle:
lol, guy on the right! Though I agree she isn't that good looking.

To the OP: your not bad looking, average really. You should be able to get decent looking girls, maybe not 10s. But no reason you can't get 8s. Probably something else wrong with your game.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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909pua

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hey man i think your cheeks are kinda big. if you lose the cheeks, guaranteed girls will like you
 

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Lemme holla at you joe

Alright #1 thing hit the gym get swole. that will eliminate 99% of any problems you may have with yourself.

#2 Follow up with some better style. That suits rented and the orange keyboard cubicle nerd button up shirt is not gonna cut it if you wanna be player status.

#3 I aint ratin your looks homie. that should prolly be #1. haha

You want 9's and dimes you gotta offer what they lookin for. If they got a bf their bf is prolly jacked, has some good style and all the good sh1t that top notch chicks go for.
 

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for some reason i think b tches like guys with trimmed faces. look at puffy combs or kanye west, you want to have a face as slim as them. i used to have one like that over 10 years ago and the minute my cheeks started getting big, they stopped looking so i think looks do matter at some point. try to eat less, go on the P90X program and go on a modified atkins diet.

if you lost some lbs since then, post a pic of your face showing you lost some weight and i will tell you if you still need to work on them
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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