"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In the first picture...before I can rate you...answer this question:

Are you the guy on the left? or the guy on the right?? :whistle:
 

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You should worry less about your looks (which you really can not change...unless you consider plastic surgery an option) and work on your body language. which is terrible in both pictures btw.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wear a smaller a shirt. Go to Syms and have a taylor do measurements to find you proper fitting shirts.

And the body language in your first pic, needs work. Your head moved to far to the left. Keep your head/neck straight and chin up, smile more.
 

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I think if you work on your body language (standing up straight, shoulders back, chest puffed), you can probably jump up a point or two in the looks department. Body language conveys a lot.
 

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You don't look too bad and should have no problem meeting women. My guess is that it is your confidence and attitude that might be holding you back.

Cheers!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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u look like you can pull. work on your game
 

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nateistoraw said:
I am tired of striking out with the ladies! I need to know my rating out of 10.

I know there is a league.

So here are 2 of my best pictures:

http://prodigygm.com/images/me.jpg

http://prodigygm.com/images/me2.jpg

Rate me out of 10
(NO HOMO)
and lets be honest please.
You ain't bad looking bruh, but like my mans Macallik said, whats your game like?

The second shirt looked kinda wack to me, that bright Orange color, but the suite is fly.....

peace
 

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Well the problem isnt confidence or anything, the problem is that I keep going for the 9s and 10s and find out they have boyfriends.lol.
 

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Looks certainly won't be an issue for you so don't even worry about it. In my opinion as long as you know what you're doing with the ladies (have tight game) and dress very nice you'll have absolutely no problem.
 

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Ken785 said:
In the first picture...before I can rate you...answer this question:

Are you the guy on the left? or the guy on the right?? :whistle:
lol, guy on the right! Though I agree she isn't that good looking.

To the OP: your not bad looking, average really. You should be able to get decent looking girls, maybe not 10s. But no reason you can't get 8s. Probably something else wrong with your game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey man i think your cheeks are kinda big. if you lose the cheeks, guaranteed girls will like you
 

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Lemme holla at you joe

Alright #1 thing hit the gym get swole. that will eliminate 99% of any problems you may have with yourself.

#2 Follow up with some better style. That suits rented and the orange keyboard cubicle nerd button up shirt is not gonna cut it if you wanna be player status.

#3 I aint ratin your looks homie. that should prolly be #1. haha

You want 9's and dimes you gotta offer what they lookin for. If they got a bf their bf is prolly jacked, has some good style and all the good sh1t that top notch chicks go for.
 

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for some reason i think b tches like guys with trimmed faces. look at puffy combs or kanye west, you want to have a face as slim as them. i used to have one like that over 10 years ago and the minute my cheeks started getting big, they stopped looking so i think looks do matter at some point. try to eat less, go on the P90X program and go on a modified atkins diet.

if you lost some lbs since then, post a pic of your face showing you lost some weight and i will tell you if you still need to work on them
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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