"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RAnt: Why don't women wear pumps anymore?

PDubb75

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I honestly can't remember the last time I saw an approachable woman in pumps. I really hope the snowy Chicago winter is the reason for it, but still can't remember the last time.

I've always been fairly into my own fashion, and while it isn't a deal breaker, I HIGHLY prefer the girls I'm going for be into their fashion, as well. Shoes are the perfect indicator of that. However, I HAAAATTTTEEEE feet! 95% of feet repulse me, and the others I can just tolerate. Nothing kills me more than an attractive girl with nice clothes and flip-flops out at a bar.

Great thread, though... completely agree!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
So did ya?
 

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
That's an attractive girl !!!
 

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Rubirosa said:
That's an attractive girl !!!
Hey thanks. Been together 2 years now. Seems like its been two weeks. Best relationship of my life bar none.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Interesting but I like flats and I sometime I wear heels but its depend on my dress and occasion.
But I can't wear heels for a long time because it kills my feet........ So that usually I avoid wearing it........
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Girls don't wear pumps like that unless their going to the club and that's a whole different store. My girlfriend wore some heels yesterday and with them on she was 6'4! Me and her were at eye level. It was sexy. As soon as we got back from dinner and dessert I threw her on the bed and showed her who whose boss. Regardless of how tall she is!
 

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The simple answer is that most American women these days are FAT. Pretty hard to wear pumps when you weigh 300+ lbs!
 

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Society is flipping to where women act like men now. I look on pof all the time and see girls chewing dip, driving the big trucks with the big wheels on them, and shooting rifles like their men. That is the most unattractive $hit ever. You can tell the girls are only posing though to get men, but to me that does the complete opposite.

Some girls look hot in certain tennis shoes, but not all
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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