"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RAnt: Why don't women wear pumps anymore?

PDubb75

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I honestly can't remember the last time I saw an approachable woman in pumps. I really hope the snowy Chicago winter is the reason for it, but still can't remember the last time.

I've always been fairly into my own fashion, and while it isn't a deal breaker, I HIGHLY prefer the girls I'm going for be into their fashion, as well. Shoes are the perfect indicator of that. However, I HAAAATTTTEEEE feet! 95% of feet repulse me, and the others I can just tolerate. Nothing kills me more than an attractive girl with nice clothes and flip-flops out at a bar.

Great thread, though... completely agree!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
So did ya?
 

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
That's an attractive girl !!!
 

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Rubirosa said:
That's an attractive girl !!!
Hey thanks. Been together 2 years now. Seems like its been two weeks. Best relationship of my life bar none.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interesting but I like flats and I sometime I wear heels but its depend on my dress and occasion.
But I can't wear heels for a long time because it kills my feet........ So that usually I avoid wearing it........
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Girls don't wear pumps like that unless their going to the club and that's a whole different store. My girlfriend wore some heels yesterday and with them on she was 6'4! Me and her were at eye level. It was sexy. As soon as we got back from dinner and dessert I threw her on the bed and showed her who whose boss. Regardless of how tall she is!
 

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The simple answer is that most American women these days are FAT. Pretty hard to wear pumps when you weigh 300+ lbs!
 

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Society is flipping to where women act like men now. I look on pof all the time and see girls chewing dip, driving the big trucks with the big wheels on them, and shooting rifles like their men. That is the most unattractive $hit ever. You can tell the girls are only posing though to get men, but to me that does the complete opposite.

Some girls look hot in certain tennis shoes, but not all
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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