"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RAnt: Why don't women wear pumps anymore?

PDubb75

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I honestly can't remember the last time I saw an approachable woman in pumps. I really hope the snowy Chicago winter is the reason for it, but still can't remember the last time.

I've always been fairly into my own fashion, and while it isn't a deal breaker, I HIGHLY prefer the girls I'm going for be into their fashion, as well. Shoes are the perfect indicator of that. However, I HAAAATTTTEEEE feet! 95% of feet repulse me, and the others I can just tolerate. Nothing kills me more than an attractive girl with nice clothes and flip-flops out at a bar.

Great thread, though... completely agree!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
So did ya?
 

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
That's an attractive girl !!!
 

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Rubirosa said:
That's an attractive girl !!!
Hey thanks. Been together 2 years now. Seems like its been two weeks. Best relationship of my life bar none.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Interesting but I like flats and I sometime I wear heels but its depend on my dress and occasion.
But I can't wear heels for a long time because it kills my feet........ So that usually I avoid wearing it........
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Girls don't wear pumps like that unless their going to the club and that's a whole different store. My girlfriend wore some heels yesterday and with them on she was 6'4! Me and her were at eye level. It was sexy. As soon as we got back from dinner and dessert I threw her on the bed and showed her who whose boss. Regardless of how tall she is!
 

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The simple answer is that most American women these days are FAT. Pretty hard to wear pumps when you weigh 300+ lbs!
 

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Society is flipping to where women act like men now. I look on pof all the time and see girls chewing dip, driving the big trucks with the big wheels on them, and shooting rifles like their men. That is the most unattractive $hit ever. You can tell the girls are only posing though to get men, but to me that does the complete opposite.

Some girls look hot in certain tennis shoes, but not all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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