"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RAnt: Why don't women wear pumps anymore?

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I honestly can't remember the last time I saw an approachable woman in pumps. I really hope the snowy Chicago winter is the reason for it, but still can't remember the last time.

I've always been fairly into my own fashion, and while it isn't a deal breaker, I HIGHLY prefer the girls I'm going for be into their fashion, as well. Shoes are the perfect indicator of that. However, I HAAAATTTTEEEE feet! 95% of feet repulse me, and the others I can just tolerate. Nothing kills me more than an attractive girl with nice clothes and flip-flops out at a bar.

Great thread, though... completely agree!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

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So did ya?
 
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cordoncordon said:
Love girls who wear great shoes. Speaking of fvck me pumps, took this of my gf last night. These are total fvck me boots. They are kind of the suede/cloth type that ride up halfway on her thighs. Just want to bend her over right then when she has them on.

http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/
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That's an attractive girl !!!
 
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Rubirosa said:
That's an attractive girl !!!
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Hey thanks. Been together 2 years now. Seems like its been two weeks. Best relationship of my life bar none.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Interesting but I like flats and I sometime I wear heels but its depend on my dress and occasion.
But I can't wear heels for a long time because it kills my feet........ So that usually I avoid wearing it........
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Girls don't wear pumps like that unless their going to the club and that's a whole different store. My girlfriend wore some heels yesterday and with them on she was 6'4! Me and her were at eye level. It was sexy. As soon as we got back from dinner and dessert I threw her on the bed and showed her who whose boss. Regardless of how tall she is!
 
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The simple answer is that most American women these days are FAT. Pretty hard to wear pumps when you weigh 300+ lbs!
 
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Society is flipping to where women act like men now. I look on pof all the time and see girls chewing dip, driving the big trucks with the big wheels on them, and shooting rifles like their men. That is the most unattractive $hit ever. You can tell the girls are only posing though to get men, but to me that does the complete opposite.

Some girls look hot in certain tennis shoes, but not all
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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