How do you figure that?If they are wearing black panties, they're planning on having sex with you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you figure that?If they are wearing black panties, they're planning on having sex with you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Only if she already is attracted to you. Or only if she is aware that your value is well higher than hers.When you meet a woman for the first time you should spend a bit of time agreeing with every damn thing she says. You have to go the comfort stage to get to the attraction stage.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Incorrect.Only if she already is attracted to you. Or only if she is aware that your value is well higher than hers.
Interesting you mention burgers. I'd rather wait for a fine meal than get that fast food instantly.Second chances occur (or should occur) long before a man goes NC.
NC happens when its clear that a particular woman/plate is NOT going to give you what you want on your terms. Men need to have standards. If you walk into a restaurant expecting a burger and they say: "Sorry no burgers today" you will leave and get your burger somewhere else. You will not make excuses for the restaurant and sit around hoping they will find a way to give you a burger.
how does that fit into the metaphor?Interesting you mention burgers. I'd rather wait for a fine meal than get that fast food instantly.
It was more free association. Burger.. standards....how does that fit into the metaphor?
how do you know if you're waiting because the "fine meal" takes longer to cook or if the cook is just lazy and dragging his feet? how do you know that it's a fine meal at all?It was more free association. Burger.. standards....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
By the normal and established rules of fine-dining. Does it have a good decor and atmosphere, how does the place hold itself, and advertise itself, what kind of customer is attracted? But no doubt, the proof is in the pudding.how do you know if you're waiting because the "fine meal" takes longer to cook or if the cook is just lazy and dragging his feet? how do you know that it's a fine meal at all?
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I have never met up with a woman wearing black panties that didn't have sex with me. It's a real thing that women do, ask them.How do you figure that?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's true. I learned that the hard way back on my early days of approaching. I approached a chick from behind (noticed some IOIs, it seemed like that) and touched her on the back and said "hi". She got scared and called me a creep. I immediately left and never did that again.Non verbal success:
Approach:
When approaching a girl, approach her from the front or from the side. Let her see you coming. That gives the brain enough time to recognize and prepare.
Do not approach someone from behind. It automatically puts them on the defensive.
If you have to come from behind, make a sound, call their name, make your presence known for them to turn around.
Meet:
Whenever you meet (with) a girl, a smile puts her at ease. Use it at your own discretion.
Want to put her on edge for bad behavior, don't smile.
Want to make her puddy for a few seconds, smile the moment you see her coming.
I have never met up with a woman wearing black panties that didn't have sex with me. It's a real thing that women do, ask them.
Yes, I'll have the Ribeye medium rare extra crispy, with garlic mash potatoes, and green beans.Interesting you mention burgers. I'd rather wait for a fine meal than get that fast food instantly.
I really like this about the drink by your side. That's a totally boss move. Nice!I'll add that you should always carry your drink waist high, at your side.
Holding in front of your chest, like most guys, is a defensive posture. Also, you look like everyone else when you do that.
If standing at a bar or a table, sit your drink on the table. Don't hold it.
Be different!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.